You are the change

One of the best lessons I've learned in life is that you can only change yourself.

As soon as you learn this, the better off you will be. It will save you frustration, headaches, and time.

So many times we complain about what other people are doing. A lot of times other people's action don’t make sense to us. We label them everything from annoying to hateful to stupid. We spend so much time going against these so called annoying people, trying to make them conform to what we want.

We spend a lot of time trying to correct and oppose them.

They become the reason we don’t like our jobs, our families, our situation.

Actually, it’s on us though. We have no control to change anyone in this world, except ourselves.

We can change in many ways. We can remove ourselves from the situation, we can stop reacting to them, or we can change how we react.

It is crazy, we spend SO MUCH time telling others about how messed up so and so is, the whole time we are stealing our own joy.

Just stop. Just change. I don’t know if it’s the therapy or the realization that we arent here for a long time, but I’ve changed.

I have changed so much. My happiness is in my hands.

You must change to find your joy.

You are the answer and the key to YOUR happiness.

If you aren’t happy. What do you need to change?